Thursday, September 22, 2011

Recently Engaged



As the title suggests I am recently engaged. Actually it happened right around the time of our last blog entries. August 7th to be exact. My fiancee's proposal wasn't exactly traditional. He just asked while we were in the car (l0l). He had taken me to pick out my engagement ring the day before but he hadn't actually asked me. The circumstances around the time that this happened made quite unusual so I didn't care that he didn't get down on one knee. I only cared about the happiness I felt and the joy I saw in his face. My fiancee was deployed when we received the news that his older brother had passed away so he was brought back for 2 weeks. During this time is when he proposed. I know this might seem like an awful time to get engaged but it worked well for us. His mother was so down and depressed that my fiancee just grabbed my ring and showed her. I wasn't there at the time but he said she started crying tears of joy. W
e don't plan on getting married for at least 2 years. I would like him to be out of the military, for me to have my degree or to be close to being done, and I would like to have some money saved up to actually pay for a wedding. Our story is a little different and not very traditional but I wouldn't change a thing.

2 comments:

  1. Congratulations on your engagement! I am so sorry to hear about the loss your fiance is going through. It is so common to put off engagements and weddings because of the expectations we have for ourselves and where we want to be... but sometimes waiting just doesn't seem that important. Now is as good of a time as any.
    My fiance asked me the day before he wanted to. He had it planned out that he would ask me when we visited a lighthouse when we were at the Outer Banks, but he just couldn't wait and asked me when I was about to fall asleep the night before. Funny how things work out though. We went to the lighthouse the next day and it was closed for construction!!

    Congratulations again!

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  2. Congratulations to you both. And I am sorry to hear about your fiance's loss.

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